guiltiness of a leader

it's really hard to become a leader either in small or large group of organisation....we can't make all of the people happy and satisfies with our decision ....they are just complaining about the particular  thing without suggesting any solution or steps that can solve the problem..is that all the leader's fault????we are just human beings and always do mistakes..the fact is we are dealing with people who has different characters and demands,not like a computer or machine which just follow our instruction or anything that we do...

huh,it's really hard to say,but i don't want to hurt anybody...sometimes,the people show their 'angel' face and talk softly in front of us..but then,what happen at the back???they become 'devil' and talk the bad thing about us...sometimes,they can make up stories until the people who never know us will put a bad impression about us and always think about the negative side of us...so,where are the pride of the leaders???if the people can't respect their leader,so the organisation is dead!!

it's just a general thing and i'm sure most of the leaders outside there face the same thing...although we are not a leader for any club or organisation,we are actually the leader of ourselves...we have to choose the right path in our life and make the best decision either to choose west or east,blue or black and sleep or keep answering exam questions...it's really hard actually and if we make a wrong decision,there might be a lot of people will suffer and got the effects...

i was frustrating with someone and i don't know what else can i do...i can't force the people although our best friend to do the thing that they don't want to..i made a promise with someone and she was very happy to hear that...but,in the end,my other friends change their mind and i felt guilty and don't know how to explain about it...as a group leader,i got to unsure that everything are ok...but then,when it comes to deal with our very own friends,it seems hard to say......